Posts by troubled mind

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Anyone see the cover of the February 1, 2012 WT?

by sd-7 in

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when i saw it, i immediately thought of that episode of 'family guy' where evil monkey becomes a jw.

the cover photo is identical to what evil monkey had!

hilarious.

Witness Watchdog

by sacolton in

a website created by jehovah's witnesses devoted to exposing "apostates" on facebook.. http://witnesswatchdog.blogspot.com/.

yes, i made the list.

- colton.

Really quite excellant if you think about it . Now any teenager having doubts knows exactly where to go to read alternative views . Nicely packaged on to one blog site ,Good Job Brother Blacklister ! You have helped the X-jw community very much .

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Witness Watchdog

by sacolton in

a website created by jehovah's witnesses devoted to exposing "apostates" on facebook.. http://witnesswatchdog.blogspot.com/.

yes, i made the list.

- colton.

troubled mind

OH MY some of those people are my facebook friends does this mean what I think it means ???? Do I have really interesting people as my friends ?!

FINALLY !

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want any old JW literature ?

by troubled mind in

omg i can not believe the amount of literature we accumilated over the years as jw's !

i threw away two full garbage cans full of bound volumes two yrs ago .a year before that i threw all the loose magazines away .

i kept one box of my moms really old stuff in the garage .

troubled mind

OMG I can not believe the amount of literature we accumilated over the years as JW's !

I threw away two full garbage cans full of bound volumes two yrs ago .A year before that I threw all the loose magazines away . I kept one box of my moms really old stuff in the garage . Today I was cleaning out a bookcase cupboard and found the whole bottom shelf was JW literature .....there was a bag of KM's from 2006 back to early 1990's. All the copies of study books back at least twenty yrs . Unopened video tapes .

GOOD Grief ......Did you realize just how over loaded we were with this stuff when you were a JW ???

I threw a lot away ,but something makes me hold on to some of this crap I will never look at ....why is that ? sentimental ....or just wanting to keep proof around on what crazy beliefs we use to have ?

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What the hell is wrong with this woman?

by Aussie Oz in

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mother discovers kid's self harm, asks why, accepts explanation of 'i dunno', ignores it,.

a year later discovers it again and does not ask why, just declares that the kid will be pulled out of school and sent to another and be sent to a psychologist if it does not stop by new year.. wtf?.

to me its like this woman is saying ''i don't care why you did it, i don't want to know, just stop it.

troubled mind

This child is suffering inner emotional turmoil and does not know how to deal with it in a healthy manner .

Oz if this is your child ,or one you have any contact with i suggest addressing the issue immediately . No ignoring the issue IT IS REAL, and not going away . A school counselor could be the first step in the right direction . Take the initiative if you are in a position of influence .

This Mom is afraid to face the problem ,that is just not a good excuse when you are a parent .

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Born ins..Were You Forced to Be a JW Growing Up?

by LostGeneration in

myth: parents who are jehovahs witnesses.

force their children to follow their faith.. fact:witness parents strive to inculcate love.

for god in their offspring, just as the bible.

troubled mind

FORCED and guilted into it ,NEVER did I feel there was any LOVE of God inculcated into Jehovah's Witness belief system !

Does anyone else think Growing up in the 60-70's was so much different than the soft ,lovey-dovey brand of JWism they have today . I thought I saw a big change in the late 80's ,a softer stance on things compared to what I had growing up .

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U.S. Army Policy Letter Regarding Jehovah's Witnesses And Blood

by Bangalore in

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u.s. army policy letter regarding jehovah's witnesses and blood.. .

bangalore.

troubled mind

When I was born in 1961 my Dad was active Marine Corps ,and my Mom was JW . We lived on base ,and I was born in a Naval hospital . My Mom had to have a c-section , and told everyone she did not want a blood transfusion . Yet when she was coming out of surgery the Doctor told my Dad she needed one ,and they gave it to her against her wishes . She was pissed about that her whole life !

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Putting up my "midwinter pagan festival blinken light tree" - I got's questions

by darthfader in

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when i was little (before jwism) we celebrated christmas.

my parents got the "truth" then we no longer celebrated it.

we used to get together with family and friends and it was great!

troubled mind

Our house is pretty small ,and at first my husband was not thrilled with the whole holiday thing ,so our first tree was/is a Dollar General artifical 6 1/2 ft tree. I added 100 twinkling lights and 100 clear lights . For a cheap tree I think it looks pretty awesome !

I work in a fancy gift store that goes crazy at Christmas time ,so I have bought glass ornaments for several years ,and saved them until the time was right My favorites are Old World Ornaments ,beautiful blown glass .

Now that husband is on board for the holidays I am hoping for a better tree next year . Something at least a bit thicker and fuller . I like the thought of real tree smell ,but artificial ones seem more practical .

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So an old friend from the hall called me today....

by shakyground in

he said he wanted to know how i was doing and what was going on with me.

i knew that it was only a matter of time before he started asking about me not being to the hall in like 3 months and him trying to bring me back into the fold.

and in about less than a minute he started telling me about how everyone at the hall misses me and asks about me.

troubled mind

NC ....be aware putting up a Christmas tree (unless your husband is not a JW) will BE the final straw . They will come knocking at your door ! After four yrs that is what finally made the Elders come after us , I had a small lighted garland on our porch . I answered their questions as stated above "NONE of their business " then when they would not stop calling I sent a registered letter of cease and desist to them . Along with a notation that the Police had a copy . This finally made them leave us alone .( Also a policeman called the COB and explained what NO contact meant ) I don't know if any actions were taken against us because they are not allowed to contact us .

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Since Leaving the JW's - Have you Changed your Medical Contact Person ?

by flipper in

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in case of a really serious medical emergency- it's something to seriously consider.

otherwise former aquaintances like jw elders in your former congregations or allegedly well meaning jw relatives who may have been listed by you as your emergency contacts might try running interference regarding the medical treatment you receive !

i finally changed my emergency medical contacts a few years ago legally to my non-witness wife, my non-witness mother in law, and my non-witness adult son.

troubled mind

I had a talk with my Doctor as soon as I began waking up to the real truth . In fact the blood issue WAS the thing that opened my eyes finally . I was still going to meetings I think ,but I told my Doctor to take the JW crap out of my records immediately ,and informed him from now on medical decisions would be made by MEDICAL personel not psuedo ministers . I told my husband of my decision right away too.

Just recently I had surgery, and a new Doctor . My husband was present when we discussed the possiblity of blood transfusion, and they both were clear what my wishes are now . But as Aquagirl stated ,get an updated medical power of attorney and legally state your wishes . When being admitted make sure they no longer have JW down as your religion ,I was asked if I had any religious preference for pastorial care while hospitalized .